Brandy and her very big toy

''I'm into being the agreeable in BDSM. I can also play the dominant role. And I love to watch men masturbate.'' So says Brandy Peters, a 42-year-old divorcee and mom from California, who was new to having sex on-camera before she came to 40SomethingMag.com. We changed that in a hurry. ''It was a huge turn-on to shoot my first porn scene,'' she said.